Omg You People Are Rude! Im Getting Married Tomorrow And 16 Whats Wrong With That?

Theres like noone that supports me besides my mom not my dad but my friends and my husbands family,friends.Okay we have been together since we were 13 i know no one will belive us but its true we had some breakups when we were 13 but since we were 14 we havent broken up. he was 14 when i met him then when i was 14 he was 15 15,he was 16 and im 16 and now hes 17! we think is a great idea for us.Our wedding is going to be hugee! its going to be in los angeles.we are accttualy from florida but we want it to be something to remember. And no WE DONT NEED NO THERAPY so u haterz need to stop saying my mother need therapy. Theres going to be a room outside where we are going to get married.Its mostly going to be pink with rosses.After that he said hes taking me to disney world when we come back from ca.Thats going to be our honeymoon.We are staying in a hotel we planned everything already.He promised me that when we get there hes going to be holding me.his car is going to say just married!!

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31 thoughts on “Omg You People Are Rude! Im Getting Married Tomorrow And 16 Whats Wrong With That?”

  1. What are you people rich or something? All these plans n stuff like you just big ballin. And you can be mad all you want at our disagreement, but i’m pretty sure 5-10 years down the road..(lol if it lasts that long), suddenly you’ll be RIGHT back on here saying “oh my god why do i feel this way, was it meant to be i was so in love at first and now we’ve grown apart” or ” Did i waste my youth on just one love” or some other crazy mess because you decided that you wanted to marry early.
    If you SERIOUSLY think…that this is gonna workout….then you have to take into account what you SERIOUSLY have in this relationship. Through THICK AND THIN….that means when sh*t gets bad, no money, someone sick, babies, bills, living WITHOUT YOUR PARENTS…dealing with lil things that annoy the sh*t out of you that he WILL DO regardless of what you think, because everyone is different. Even smack down to the sex, temptation…and oh the big finale…..LONG DISTANCE/COLLEGE….cause if you guys plan on goin to college ho ho boy is that a life changer.
    If you can safely say and confidently know you can maturely handle all that was just said in that paragraph….then sure…nothin wrong with that..you’ve ‘seemingly’ matured for your youthful age….maybe you have more sense than the idiots that divorce 27 times, or cheat, or get married cause it was ‘cool’ and then go through all this drama cause they were never REALLY ready in the first place.
    MAYBE you might be like our grandfathers or great grandfathers, or the folks who’ve married really young but because they focused on ‘teamwork’ and REAL love, not a convenient love/lust relationships that’s fun, they get to have these 50 year + marriages. My grandfather was 18..my grandmother was 15 when he proposed and married her….they were soulmates until they passed. But that was back then…people valued tradition and hard work much more than now.
    SO…..if you think you’re ready….fine…have at it…but don’t get pissed when the consequences of love, responsibility, and marriage whoop yo *ss…cause it will, it’ll be rewarding when you got love, but it will be a b*tch if you weren’t ready to take on the BIG RESPONSIBILITY. If it works, then i applaud you, you’ll be one of the rare few that exist in this generation. And if it doesn’t work out…well….we told you so.

  2. 16? People are not being rude. People are having more common sense then you have. 16, you not even graduated from college. Getting married at 16 is illegal in most states.
    Sweetie I wish you the best of luck, but when bills pile up, sex slows down, he is not romantic, you want to travel and can’t because of a husband, baby cries and you have no time alone…Then maybe you will wish you waited till you were older.

  3. From what you are writing is sounds like you are only looking forward to the big day and honeymoon. Hun, what is going to happen when this is all over and you have to live with each other for the rest of your lives? I really hope it works for you as it won’t be easy, in an marriage.

  4. What you need is a grammar lesson. Try to conjugate a verb properly and then tell us you’re old enough to get married. You haven’t even mastered the English language.
    When you act mature, people will respond to you accordingly.
    By the way, will you be the *only* married couple at your senior prom? What about homecoming next year?

  5. um…….have fun……at disney world lolz omg so funny. So really, wheres the question? I may be rude, but at least i have a brain.
    EDIT: oops just found your question “im getting married tomorrow and 16 whats wrong with that?” EVERYTHING!!!

  6. u sound like a baby who have her hopes on..but u r 16, u talk like a little girl who is dreaming to be a princess..how are u going to support ur bf and how is he going to support u?? how r u going to pay for a house and all that extra bills?? it SOUNDS like u have a CHILD’S mentality…

  7. lmfao@ he is taking me to disney world.. YOU WILL BE DIVORCED BY 19….
    LMFAO Y DID I GET A THUMBS DOWN FOR THAT?? I BET YOU’RE 16 TOO AND THINK YOU KNOW EVERYTHING.. WAIT TILL U TURN 25 AND THINK BACK AT 16.. U WILL REMEMBER THIS CONVERSATION AND BE LIKE DANG.. SHE WAS RIGHT…

  8. If you are about to be a married young lady then you need to grow up and stop acting out on Yahoo Answers forget how everybody else feels and do what God is leading you to do in life, but be sure that you are being led.

  9. Ok, you are so retarded. What kind of fantasy world are you living in. You are living in a bubble. And who is paying for this wedding? mommy and daddy? I also wonder if you have to pay kids admission at Disney world. Hmmm, let me know

  10. From personal experience myself, having been married at 19, it was too young, I guess s people just think it is a shame that you are becoming a wife before you have become an adult.

  11. You can’t even spell, how can you get married? You’re too young, you’re going to change and grow a lot in the next 5 years. You should have a long engagement and give it time.

  12. because your both children, sure it appears real. However as we know because we have been your age we know how foolish thinking you can decide as an adult at 16.
    I hope it works for you
    the odds are against it though

  13. Well, first of all, you need to learn how to spell. Second of all, you sound like a spoiled little rich kid (correction: CHILD). I hope he leaves you with 3 kids when you are 18.

  14. Yeah right.
    Want attention much?
    You are very boring and uncreative troll.
    Bored teenager during summer vacation alert…. blah

  15. “he was 14 when i met him then when i was 14 he was 15 15,he was 16 and im 16 and now hes 17!”
    This just shows you are too young to be married.

  16. good 4 u
    hope ur marriage works out
    im happy for u
    bu i tink ur trowin ur childhood away…like wont u miss goin out to clubs and snoggin randoms? lol… and why did u put it up on yahoo wen u knew some ppl wer gna b rude about it?!
    x x x x

  17. Disney World….
    there’s a reason its not legal. you are stupid.
    when are the kids due? soon?
    I wish you two good luck, you’re really going to need it

  18. your making a big mistake. getting married means you two have to support eachother, and do ya’ll even have jobs??? its going to ruin your relationship. wait till your older

  19. Were you gunna leav in seperate homes or your mommy and daddy have enough money to get u HUGE house??????

  20. Sorry about the therapy comment in your earlier question. Go ahead, get married, go to Disneyworld, have a couple kids, find out neither one of you can get a good job and support a family, realize you can’t afford food or gas or diapers, wait till he turns 21 and wants to go hang w/his friends in the bars….. THEN go find a therapist( if you can find one that takes medicaid, you can find a sitter and have bus money to get there)
    Reality sucks sometimes, and 16 yr olds don’t usually don’t see the bigger picture.

  21. There is nothing wrong with it, its just that no adays, people get married at such a young age, and divorce follows a few years behind because the people that got married seem to go separate ways. I wish you luck, and it sounds like its going to be a beautiful wedding, and hopefully your family will come around, after they see its going to be a true marriage and both of you love each other. I just figured if you really love each other so much you would wait till your both 18 and out of school, like most people do now.

  22. Your parents must be super rich.
    Well, if I knew you in person I wouldn’t talk to you because you are a spoiled person who gets everything they want from their parents and never has to work a day in their life. After all, how can you afford California, a wedding and disney all at 16??? I’m almost 19 and I make pretty damn good money and my oldest sister’s wedding is soon and she is spending boatloads. Weddings cost around 20k. You have 20k, plus money to buy a house and support each other, plus money for disney???? You are a spoiled brat for getting your parents to pay for everything. I paid for everything except my dinner food and housing since I was 13.
    fyi, My bf and I went to Florida for Spring Training and we had a HARD time finding a hotel to stay at. He was 20 at the time and I was 18. Most hotels you need to have a person present who is 21 or older. We only got that one because it was literally the only hotel that would let us stay at 18+ and not 21+.
    I don’t have a problem with getting married at 18 or anything, but anything younger is crazy. Do you really have a house and a good job and are able to support each other if something happens??? From your paragraph it sounds like you AREN’T ready for marriage.
    But oh well. I’m sure no one will stop you. Just don’t come crying back on Yahoo Answers asking everyone why you are divorced at 17. Weddings are a lot of drama and work. Do you really have the time in between recess and nap time???
    Your parents can’t pay for everything for you your entire life. And if they do, I actually feel sorry for you because you are a pathethic spoiled brat and no one wants to be with a person like that.

  23. I support you 100%. There are many people your age that get married. Me and my wife got married I was 19 and she turned 18 and 2 days later we got married. That was almost 4 years ago.
    Both her sisters were married at age 16 and they have been married for 10 years and 5 years.
    Go for it. Happiness is what you make of it!

  24. Congrats! My mom was 16 when she married my dad.They were happily married for 34 years until she passed away suddenly a few months ago.Everybody told them they would
    never make it.Stay Strong and True Love will endure.

  25. There is nothing wrong with it. It is just a lil young. But if u are happy adn are sure its the right thing….do it.

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