Is This Stupied??
18 May 2009
22 Comments
Ok, my boyfriend and i are planing on getting married. he said that i culd have the wedding ive always wanted, well when i told him he said NO. but then i talked him into it, all i have to do for him is too get married in court room first. well my dream wedding is too get married at disney world in eather italy or germany. but evry one i talk too about it says that its stuiped. and a waste of money, YES its alot of money too spend but if you think about it all the memories you’ll have and all the fun your family and friends will have. and plus the pictures and videos. i think its worth it. but i dont know. please help, do you think its stupied for me to plan my wedding at disney world?
no but your spelling is
S T U P I D
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You must be a kid! Save that money for a house. Yes it is stupid, not stupied!
yes, it’s stupid. Take that money and use it as a down payment on a house.
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You don’t say where you live but you do need to realize a trip to another country can be very expensive. Many of the people you want to include won’t be able to afford to go. Also, you’re assuming your family and friends will have fun but seriously, not everyone is going to be as excited about Disneyworld as you are.
i got married in disney world at cinderella’s castle
Married at Disney?
Sounds Goofy to me.
Get it? Goofy?
OK, I’m done…
It’s not ’stupid’, but costly…maybe that’s why you are getting a lot of resistance.
I say to each his own so I would not call it stupid, just unconventional and nothing is wrong with that. BUT, warning here! If you get married at the courthouse you may never get the wedding of your dreams! My ex brother-in-law convinced my sister to marry him in Vegas and have her dream wedding later. He never let it happen!
The Wedding lasts one day and will only be a memory. The marriage (supposedly) lasts forever and will provide you with many, many, many memories. How you get married is not important, the marriage itself IS. I personally would not plan that kind of wedding, but that’s your business.
Well, are your friends and family able or even willing to fork out the money to attend? I think it’s a waste of money. Your marriage and the life you build will be where your memories come from. You will remember your wedding, but it’s only one day of many. You will also be limiting yourself on how many people will be able to share the moment with you, because not too many people will be able to afford it.
I’ve been married 9 years. I can count on one hand how many times I have watched our wedding video. I have looked through the photo albums with my kids, but you can have beautiful pictures taken just about anywhere. I remember my wedding, but it isn’t the main focus of the memories I have.
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A one hour drive to Italy, or Germany? Huh?
You assume that all of your friends and family can also afford to go Euro Disney…
Yeah, I think it’s stupid to plan a wedding that your fiance isn’t in favor of and that will cause a financial burden to your guests.
No, it’s not stupid. But it will probably be expensive and you don’t want to start a marriage off neck high in debt from the wedding.
there are a lot better things to spend your money on. I am married and don’t regret that I didn’t waste a lot of money on a ridiculously expensive and childish wedding.
it’s stupid to get married before your wedding…….do yourself a big favor and get your college degree first…..
I think it is a wonderful fantasy but should probably be kept that. Just have a simple wedding and maybe take a wonderful honeymoon to both germany and italy. And with the money left over get your first home together. I know its hard and this is a once and a lifetime thing but believe me years not many from now your gonna be like what was I thinking lol. Your not stupid but its not reasonable and probably would be hard for other people to get to. You can have a small or even average size wedding and it can still be a fantasy but what the real fun and money should be to is a home and an unforgetable honeymoon you can talk about for years. Good luck!! And congratulations.
Yes it is stupid to get married at Disney world – Italy or Germany??? Have a small wedding and take the extra money and save it and for your first anniversary go to Italy or Germany.
Go for the real rather than the fake that someone else thought you should see….
If money isn’t an issue…..get married where ever the hell you want to….
Why dont you go on your honeymoon there instead? Its a huge waste of money for you and your guests
I LOVE that Idea. It is so cute!!!
I want to get married there too now!
Ha. I don’t think it’s stupid.
If you are worried about the money issue, then just get married on a beach by yourself and a few family friends and parents. It would save lots of money since you would make the cake and stuff. Dont listen to the other people! I love the idea!
It’s not so much where you get married but who is all there to make the memories.
It may be stupid to some people but if it’s your dream and you can afford it then go for it.
I myself wouldn’t do it but that’s just me.
One og my friends got married at Disney World. It was nice ceremony but she really regreted it. The cost was the most expensive of flying down, rooms, food, sight seeing, wedding, dress, food, pics, etc. I can see why he does not want to go. If it is what you want then try to talk to him about it again. You really only have one true wedding so make it special.
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