Comments on: Depression About My Wedding, Any Advice? http://disneyfairytales.com/2009/05/depression-about-my-wedding-any-advice/ Disney Wedding News, Pictures, and Blog Thu, 08 Sep 2011 17:04:14 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.1 By: pligg.com http://disneyfairytales.com/2009/05/depression-about-my-wedding-any-advice/comment-page-1/#comment-4876 pligg.com Wed, 20 May 2009 10:47:22 +0000 http://disneyfairytales.com/2009/05/depression-about-my-wedding-any-advice/#comment-4876 <strong>Depression About My Wedding, Any Advice?...</strong> Ok, this is probably going to sound stupid, but my fiance is paying for our entire wedding and honeymoon. I don’t have any money to pitch in for the wedding, I’m still living with my mom and I’m trying to help her out financially. With rising pri... Depression About My Wedding, Any Advice?…

Ok, this is probably going to sound stupid, but my fiance is paying for our entire wedding and honeymoon. I don’t have any money to pitch in for the wedding, I’m still living with my mom and I’m trying to help her out financially. With rising pri…

]]> By: lunchy http://disneyfairytales.com/2009/05/depression-about-my-wedding-any-advice/comment-page-1/#comment-3529 lunchy Wed, 06 May 2009 17:02:32 +0000 http://disneyfairytales.com/2009/05/depression-about-my-wedding-any-advice/#comment-3529 It's going to be YOUR (plural) money after the marriage anyway...so let him pay for it. I would be depressed too if I were wearing an old prom dress to my wedding...get yourself a WEDDING dress. No matter how small the wedding, you need a wedding dress. That is what makes you feel like a bride. It’s going to be YOUR (plural) money after the marriage anyway…so let him pay for it.
I would be depressed too if I were wearing an old prom dress to my wedding…get yourself a WEDDING dress. No matter how small the wedding, you need a wedding dress. That is what makes you feel like a bride.

]]> By: Sherri F http://disneyfairytales.com/2009/05/depression-about-my-wedding-any-advice/comment-page-1/#comment-3530 Sherri F Wed, 06 May 2009 17:02:32 +0000 http://disneyfairytales.com/2009/05/depression-about-my-wedding-any-advice/#comment-3530 he loves you and he likes to pamper you..Be happy and show your love for him every day and that is all he will want in return.Cook good meals, treat him like a king, these things dont cost money and its not about money.Buy him a meaning ful gift you can afford.. he loves you and he likes to pamper you..Be happy and show your love for him every day and that is all he will want in return.Cook good meals, treat him like a king, these things dont cost money and its not about money.Buy him a meaning ful gift you can afford..

]]> By: angelhai http://disneyfairytales.com/2009/05/depression-about-my-wedding-any-advice/comment-page-1/#comment-3531 angelhai Wed, 06 May 2009 17:02:32 +0000 http://disneyfairytales.com/2009/05/depression-about-my-wedding-any-advice/#comment-3531 if he wants to pay, let him! Just do all the planning and tell him where he needs to be and when. You can be the planner instead of hiring one. Give him massages, make him good meals, etc... That's how you can pay him back. Men loooove those things, trust me ;) if he wants to pay, let him! Just do all the planning and tell him where he needs to be and when. You can be the planner instead of hiring one.
Give him massages, make him good meals, etc… That’s how you can pay him back. Men loooove those things, trust me ;)

]]> By: Sally G http://disneyfairytales.com/2009/05/depression-about-my-wedding-any-advice/comment-page-1/#comment-3532 Sally G Wed, 06 May 2009 17:02:32 +0000 http://disneyfairytales.com/2009/05/depression-about-my-wedding-any-advice/#comment-3532 Traditionally, the wedding is planned around the brides budget and family circumstances. Keep it very simple. Traditionally, the wedding is planned around the brides budget and family circumstances. Keep it very simple.

]]> By: Jessica - B2B July 4th http://disneyfairytales.com/2009/05/depression-about-my-wedding-any-advice/comment-page-1/#comment-3533 Jessica - B2B July 4th Wed, 06 May 2009 17:02:32 +0000 http://disneyfairytales.com/2009/05/depression-about-my-wedding-any-advice/#comment-3533 It sounds like you are marrying a really sweet guy. Let him pay what he can for both of yours special day. You will be contributing to the household account soon enough and helping out! It sounds like you are marrying a really sweet guy. Let him pay what he can for both of yours special day. You will be contributing to the household account soon enough and helping out!

]]> By: Sandy Ego http://disneyfairytales.com/2009/05/depression-about-my-wedding-any-advice/comment-page-1/#comment-3534 Sandy Ego Wed, 06 May 2009 17:02:32 +0000 http://disneyfairytales.com/2009/05/depression-about-my-wedding-any-advice/#comment-3534 Stop worrying about it! You're getting married, everything's going to be "ours" instead of "yours" and "mine". I'm sure he's well aware of your situation and wants nothing better than for you to calm down and stop stressing about it. P.S. "He" is not paying for it... "You and him" are. This is what marriage is about - combining your lives. Stop worrying about it! You’re getting married, everything’s going to be “ours” instead of “yours” and “mine”. I’m sure he’s well aware of your situation and wants nothing better than for you to calm down and stop stressing about it.
P.S. “He” is not paying for it… “You and him” are. This is what marriage is about – combining your lives.

]]> By: mad http://disneyfairytales.com/2009/05/depression-about-my-wedding-any-advice/comment-page-1/#comment-3535 mad Wed, 06 May 2009 17:02:32 +0000 http://disneyfairytales.com/2009/05/depression-about-my-wedding-any-advice/#comment-3535 he seems ok with it, so I do not see why you ar not. I actually think that is the way weddings should be- have the groom and his family pay for the wedding- it is his gift to you for accepting him.......and one more thing........GET YOUR WEDDING DRESS!!!! there is nothing wrong with that, my mom and my dad married over 20 yrs ago and he didnt get her a dress and my mom agreed to that back then, but know she is sorry she didnt make him buy it to her..... Whaterver your desision is i wish you luck on your wedding day and that your marriage lasts till the last day of your lifes. he seems ok with it, so I do not see why you ar not. I actually think that is the way weddings should be- have the groom and his family pay for the wedding- it is his gift to you for accepting him…….and one more thing……..GET YOUR WEDDING DRESS!!!! there is nothing wrong with that, my mom and my dad married over 20 yrs ago and he didnt get her a dress and my mom agreed to that back then, but know she is sorry she didnt make him buy it to her….. Whaterver your desision is i wish you luck on your wedding day and that your marriage lasts till the last day of your lifes.

]]> By: b2b 5-2-10 http://disneyfairytales.com/2009/05/depression-about-my-wedding-any-advice/comment-page-1/#comment-3536 b2b 5-2-10 Wed, 06 May 2009 17:02:32 +0000 http://disneyfairytales.com/2009/05/depression-about-my-wedding-any-advice/#comment-3536 the fact that you want to is enough - he wants to do this for you than he loves you... you want to pull your weight so you love him i recently lost my job and got a new one that doesn't pay much at all - my fiance says the same thing every time i feel like i'm not pulling my own weight - "i would only mind if you didn't want to help" - and i'm sure that's how your guy feels. make sure he keeps knowing that you want to help and let him do it - i'm sure it makes him feel good the fact that you want to is enough – he wants to do this for you than he loves you… you want to pull your weight so you love him
i recently lost my job and got a new one that doesn’t pay much at all – my fiance says the same thing every time i feel like i’m not pulling my own weight – “i would only mind if you didn’t want to help” – and i’m sure that’s how your guy feels. make sure he keeps knowing that you want to help and let him do it – i’m sure it makes him feel good

]]> By: Mary http://disneyfairytales.com/2009/05/depression-about-my-wedding-any-advice/comment-page-1/#comment-3537 Mary Wed, 06 May 2009 17:02:32 +0000 http://disneyfairytales.com/2009/05/depression-about-my-wedding-any-advice/#comment-3537 This is his gift to you in return for accepting his hand in marriage! Let him do this for you. I know it's hard but relax and just keep it simple and small. Just a couple of family members at Justice of the Peace followed by a nice dinner. And yes, you should be happy and FEEL like a bride. You can find great bargains on nice Gowns, you just have to look. David's Bridal (if in your area) offers a $99 Gown sale practically every other month! Keep an eye out for offers like that. This is his day too and it sounds like he's willing to do what it takes to make this shared moment a special and joyous occassion, which it should be. When your 10 (or 20) year anniversary comes around and you can do something big for a renewing of the vows then go for it. I think you would be helping him out more by accepting his offer and allowing you two to have a little fun with this...don't get yourselves into massive debt but at least enjoy yourselves and be happy about getting married rather than dreading it. Best wishes to you both! This is his gift to you in return for accepting his hand in marriage! Let him do this for you. I know it’s hard but relax and just keep it simple and small. Just a couple of family members at Justice of the Peace followed by a nice dinner. And yes, you should be happy and FEEL like a bride. You can find great bargains on nice Gowns, you just have to look. David’s Bridal (if in your area) offers a $99 Gown sale practically every other month! Keep an eye out for offers like that. This is his day too and it sounds like he’s willing to do what it takes to make this shared moment a special and joyous occassion, which it should be. When your 10 (or 20) year anniversary comes around and you can do something big for a renewing of the vows then go for it. I think you would be helping him out more by accepting his offer and allowing you two to have a little fun with this…don’t get yourselves into massive debt but at least enjoy yourselves and be happy about getting married rather than dreading it. Best wishes to you both!

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